Here is a sample letter for your ex that you still love, which you can use as inspiration for your personal letter. It’s never easy to put your feelings on paper after a breakup in the hope of winning back your ex, so this letter is meant to help you do just that. Of all the possible steps you can take to try to win back your ex, the handwritten letter is the most powerful thing you can do. Love letter, apology letter, forgiveness letter, questioning letter, love letter to save the couple or to give them a second chance, it’s up to you depending on your situation. So don’t hesitate, don’t be afraid of words and feelings, be sincere and go for it. If your ex still loves you, this letter could be the beginning of your new start together.
Letter to your ex that you still love
I am writing to you from the depths of my heart, but I don’t know if it will be enough. I am well aware that this letter I am sending you is a bit like a bottle in the sea. The last chance, the last attempt to tell you my “why”, my “how”, my “because”. But also my regrets, my excuses, my desires and my hopes.
If there is one thing I am absolutely sure and certain of, it is that I still love you. To tell the truth, I have never stopped loving you and I have never loved a man the way I love you anyway.
The problem is that I haven’t been able to love you as I should have. Can one love badly, love too much, love awkwardly?
I’m not looking for any excuses but I think that there is the beginning of an answer. And therefore, the beginning of a solution. In any case, this is what I hope from the bottom of my heart.
A reconciliation… Not that we are angry, not that we have become enemies. There is no hatred between us, I know that, and that is also why I love you: because I know that you are not a man to nourish grudges or resentments that pollute, that hurt. They serve no purpose except to feed negative feelings.
Everything I feel for you is positive, beautiful, full of hope. Of course I am not so naive as to not understand the gravity of the situation. I know my mistakes, my shortcomings, my faults and my responsibilities in our break-up.
The regrets that have been with me ever since do not go away and I know how I failed to make you completely happy.
I told you, I am aware of my responsibility for what happened to us. But it is precisely because I know all this that I hope I can convince you to give our relationship, our love, another chance.
Isn’t that more important than knowing how to recognize your wrongs and wanting to make amends? Isn’t it more important than admitting your love?
I’m telling you or rather I’m writing it down: I love you as I did on the first day, or even more so today. It is often said that we only realize the value of a thing or a person when we lose it… I already knew that you were a wonderful man, but losing you made me understand that you were, that you are, the man of my life. The only one I love, the only one who will understand me and make me happy.
I miss you terribly. Not an hour goes by without me thinking about you and wondering what you are doing, where you are, how you are and if you think about me at all.
Every day I pick up the phone to write you a text message or call you, but every time I give up out of fear. Fear of your silence, of your anger maybe, of your disappointment. And I tell myself that you need time. To think, to put your thoughts and feelings in order. And hopefully to forgive, to regret and to want to find myself again.
So I let some time go by, even though it’s a real torture. I imposed this radio silence on myself to let things calm down.
And this letter seemed to me the best thing to do to prove to you the sincerity of my approach, the strength of my feelings of love for you and the certainty of my commitment to you.
Of course, words alone will not be enough to prove all this to you, I know that. All I hope is that you will give me the time and the opportunity to show you by actions that I am sincere. These are not empty words, empty phrases, an unimportant letter. I promise you that I will do everything I can to help our couple rise from the ashes and to make you happy. If only you would give me the opportunity to do so.
I want you to know that I still love you deeply and that I only wish one thing, to find happiness at your side.
I hope that this letter will find an echo in you, that it will awaken something, that your feelings are not yet totally extinguished. And that we can give each other a second chance, hand in hand, heart to heart, with trust and love.
With all my love,