Some mistakes are too serious, too important to recover from easily. There are limits not to be crossed. However, if there is a chance that she will forgive you for the mistakes you made, you should offer a sincere apology. You need to let her know that you will never hurt her again in the future. Here’s how she would want you to apologize after you’ve destroyed her!
The most important thing you can do is to acknowledge your mistakes. Don’t be afraid to explain why you did what you did, to say what you said. But don’t throw out random excuses, don’t justify your bad deeds or bad words, just try to explain them.
Here’s how she would like you to apologize after destroying it
Some mistakes are too serious, too important to recover from easily. There are limits not to be crossed. However, if there is a chance that she will forgive you for the mistakes you made, you should offer a sincere apology. You need to let her know that you will never hurt her again in the future. Here’s how she would want you to apologize after you’ve destroyed her!
The most important thing you can do is to acknowledge your mistakes. Don’t be afraid to explain why you did what you did, to say what you said. But don’t throw out random excuses, don’t justify your bad deeds or bad words, just try to explain them.
If you want her to forgive you, you must promise her that you will treat her better in the future – but most importantly, you must KEEP that promise! You can’t act as if you’re going to change your attitude one day and return to your old ways the next. If you keep repeating your mistakes, you may get her back in the short term, but she’ll go right back. She will come to her senses when she realizes that you are not a man of your word.
Forget about gifts
If you want her to forgive you, don’t rely on expensive gifts to make conversation for you. If you want to start making up with her by surprising her with flowers and chocolates, then have fun. However, don’t think your work is done. You can’t buy back her trust. Your change in behavior is the best excuse!
Tell her what you really think
If you want her to forgive you, make sure you say what you really think. Say you are sorry. Say that you love her. Say you will never hurt her again. Don’t assume she already knows all this. Don’t assume that your feelings don’t need to be expressed. Make it clear that you want her, that you want this relationship and that you want to be the best partner you can be.
Give her time
If you want her to forgive you, you have to give her time. You can’t push her toward healing. It may take some time for her to accept what you have done. She probably won’t start hugging and kissing you right away. But if she’s the only one you want, then she’ll be worth waiting for.
Remember, she doesn’t want you to apologize to shut her up.
She wants you to apologize because you mean it, because you really feel bad about hurting her, because you really believe she deserves better than what you put her through!
