- Don’t look for a “real man” to decide your happiness and your future
No one, not even a rich man, can take care of your happiness and personal satisfaction more than you. For no one can experience everything that happens in your inner world more than you. No one can observe your inner world and make decisions for you.
Any other person’s decision, no matter how loving, will never be exactly what will satisfy you. If you leave your happiness in the hands of others you will feel disappointed and may believe that true love is not for you.
- What matters when you are looking for true love is, what do you want in your life?
How do you want to live? What qualities do you value in what true love is for you? Once you clarify these aspects what kind of man is compatible with the lifestyle you want to live. Life is more romantic if you know yourself.
What you really want is not to look for the rich man who suits you, but to be in control of your happiness. When you take responsibility for your happiness, by finding the right man your happiness is no longer at risk.
- You don’t look for a man exactly the opposite of the men who let you down
True love is not the opposite of the loves that failed you. Searching for the perfect man who suits you is a task without rewards. Even the best man will disappoint you if your greatest expectation is that he will make you happy.
The perfect love will not come to you; the love that suits you is not that of a rich man. No man will have the right and proper motivation to take care of you. But if you have the clarity of the qualities you desire in that man you will be able to find it.
- Live a lifestyle according to your dreams by taking full responsibility for them
The path to finding true love is full of mistakes, doubts and risks even if you meet a rich man. That’s why when looking for the man who is right for you and with whom you will be happy only depends on what you decide as your lifestyle.
There is no perfect man so you will have to tolerate some behaviors and not others. Just because a man is rich doesn’t mean you have to tolerate everything. If that rich man is suitable and you are not authentic, he will not see you as attractive.
- When looking for true love, chemistry is not everything when deciding what is right.
If you accept that no boy is perfect you have to learn to tolerate things that you may not like. When looking for the man who is right for you, chemistry will not always be immediate. You will have to learn to deal with the uncertainty of waiting.
Chemistry can take time, especially if you are dealing with emotionally balanced and intelligent men. Physical attraction counts, but it’s not everything. For example, you can’t say you like a rich man just because he’s creditworthy.
- Improve your lifestyle while you are alone and become an attractive woman
Many women dream of a rich man as a partner. But the question is, would a rich man fall in love with a woman like you? When looking for the right man you need to be congruent. Don’t look, rather become someone who attracts good men.
If you live a lifestyle where you feel fulfilled, satisfied and happy many good men will want to be there. True love is not sought, it is built. All you need to be happy and have everything is to rebuild yourself with the attributes you want in your life.
In short… the best way to relate to a man in order to make a couple and not lose out is to take charge of your happiness.