Here are the most important signs that your relationship isn’t lasting… and that, at some point, the love between you will fade:
Is the bond between you and your partner secure? Do you think the love between you will never fade? Over 50% of marriages worldwide end in divorce. Parting is difficult, but unfortunately, many couples never make it past five years of marriage. Wouldn’t it be nice if there was a way to find out if you and your partner will end up not feeling love for each other?
There are a few ways to determine if the relationship you have with the person you care about is lasting. You can look for things like how you communicate, bedroom habits and how often you argue/have complex arguments.
Here are the most important signs that the relationship isn’t lasting… and that, at some point, the love between you will fade:
You vent your anger on your partner.
A psychologist’s study has shown that this habit damages a relationship and causes your partner to gradually distance themselves from you (sometimes without even realising it).
You should always pay attention to the little things and thank your partner for what they do for you.
When you forget to show gratitude for your efforts, you can compromise the emotional health of the relationship. Gratitude should always be an essential part of your love language.
Try to change each other.
You want to change your partner’s behaviour, attitude, life, and appearance. Don’t try to transform the man next to you, to make him a completely different person to satisfy your needs, because it won’t work.
Forgive, but don’t forget.
In every relationship, there are times when you need to ask for or offer forgiveness. While you forgive your partner, remember that you must also forget the situation. Let bygones be bygones, and don’t use the moment in the future to win a fight with your partner.
There are all kinds of secrets in a relationship.
Do you keep a lot of secrets to yourself? When you’re in a long-term relationship, it’s no fun keeping secrets because many of them make you lie to your partner.
What relationship is one where neither partner is willing to compromise? When one person dominates and makes all the decisions, it’s hard for the other person to feel important. Relationships are about giving and taking, and compromise is essential.
You are not on the same page.
For a relationship to be successful, you both need to be going in the same direction, on the same path. Love won’t save you if you want entirely different things. You need to agree on the fundamental, essential things (e.g. whether you want to get married at some point, whether you want children, how you save or invest your money and where you will live).
It takes a lot of work to keep a relationship alive, and it’s easy to fall into a rut. Once there is a commitment to live together, you should try hard to ensure the romance between you doesn’t fade.
Most couples get lost in the mundane details and day-to-day problems, forgetting about love and passion. That’s why you must make an effort moment by moment to ensure you’re still doing those little things to keep the flame between you alive.