Do you feel like you’re in the relationship you’ve always wanted to be in? Do you feel like your boyfriend is the best guy in the world? Is he the man every woman wants for herself? Do you feel like you couldn’t be happier with him?
You feel good with him
It sounds simple, but a relationship cannot work without you feeling comfortable with each other.
And you do, in fact you enjoy every minute of being together. You feel excited and energized when you do something together or just being around your lover.
It encourages you to be the best you can be and to grow
As humans we are constantly changing, and the goal is obviously to change for the better. A good partner is a great help in making positive progress.
Your friend is the person who will always motivate you, keep you going, help you stick to your goals if you need it, and constantly encourage and support you on your journey.
He doesn’t want to take away your independence
In a relationship, we often feel that we lose our independence, because we already do a lot as a couple, we have to share our free time and, not least, our bed with our lover. So time for ourselves can take a back seat, especially if the other person simply won’t let us live.
You, on the other hand, can proudly say that you have a life of your own in a relationship, because your partner gives you enough space to make time for yourself. You can make time for your girlfriends, your favourite hobbies and your family without your boyfriend getting angry or offended that you’re not with him.
100% trust between you
We don’t need to explain how important trust is in a relationship. It’s the foundation of everything. Where there are trust issues from the beginning, love will not last long.
But you two trust each other completely, you don’t get too jealous and you don’t have to worry all the time about whether your boyfriend is cheating on you when he’s not with you. You can let him go out with his friends and you can party with the girls. You’ve talked everything through, you’re not afraid to open up to each other, so you’ve got a strong enough bond.
You can be yourself with him
This is no less important than the points above. If you have to play yourself in a relationship, it’s already bad. You can only feel good and enjoy the positive effects of love if you can let yourself go with your partner.
You feel safe because your boyfriend loves you just the way you are, so you don’t have to pretend to be someone else in front of him. He’s seen you at your best and at your worst, so you don’t have to worry about him judging you or trying to change you. You’re comfortable in your own skin, and it’s a feeling like nothing you’ve ever felt before.
Well, did you know yourselves? Then congratulations, you are one lucky girl!