Is he in love with me? These 6 signals tell you his true feelings at the beginning of a possible relationship.
He contacts me: Is he in love with me?
This is one of the most important signs that he’s into you. When a man is really interested in a woman, he always finds the time to get in touch. No matter if he is stressed or not. For a message, mail or a call to the woman of his heart, he takes the time.
CAUTION. If he keeps messaging you or his constant calls become annoying to you, you should draw a line. Then he is not only in love, but clings to you.
He thinks about me
If you have an important date and he writes you a message beforehand to encourage you, he has thought of you. When you have a girls’ night out and he wishes you a good time, you know he’s in your thoughts. He actively participates in your life and remembers little things? Then you can be sure he likes you.
CAUTION. Thinking about someone or controlling someone are two different things. If he always needs to know where you are and who you are with, he is thinking about you, but in a limiting way. Then he’s probably just afraid of losing you.
Is he into me if he asks me out?
A man who is into you will be happy to invite you out for coffee, a drink, or dinner. In doing so, he certainly doesn’t think that you can’t afford it yourself financially. He just wants to present himself from his best side.
CAUTION! There are also men with little self-confidence who want to “buy” a woman through gifts and invitations. Don’t get involved in that! You may let yourself be invited from time to time, but not all the time. Otherwise, if things don’t go well with you anymore, you may have to justify it.
Is he in love with me? We are on the road a lot
If he’s in love with you, he’ll want to show you off to his friends and acquaintances and maybe even show you off a bit. He wants everyone to know the great woman by his side because he’s proud to be with you.
CAUTION. Pay close attention to whether he just wants to “adorn” himself with you. Then it is only about his ego and not at all about you.
What loves, teases each other
Of course, you can’t talk about love at the beginning of a relationship, but affectionate teasing is definitely a sign of affection. Playful and challenging jokes are part of a good flirt.
CAUTION. If the jokes are always at your expense or you feel hurt by his jokes, you need to tell him that! Calmly show him your limits and make it clear to him from the beginning if he goes too far. The teasing game is meant to give you pleasure and is not meant to make fun of the other roughly.
He’s making plans for the future
Suppose you’re talking about a new movie, an interesting concert, or a great restaurant: if he’s genuinely interested in you, he’ll suggest going there together. “Let’s go to that concert together! Are you up for it?” If he’s thinking beyond the current situation, it’s a signal that he’s genuinely interested in you and enjoys your company. Then you can be sure he’ll want to continue seeing you.
CAUTION. If he talks about moving in together, getting married, or having children during the first few meetings, this is more evidence of fear of loss than of great feelings. Do not let yourself be pinned down or put under pressure in such a situation!