1/ You keep the distance
Some even say it’s the ultimate test for all couples! Will your love go the distance? A more or less long separation puts things into perspective. The more the world tries to get in the way of true love, the more it will grow and grow stronger. And for all couples who have been in long-distance relationships and who have stood the test of time, life for two once they are together will seem much easier!
2/ You love each other for your qualities, but also for your faults.
You are mutually aware that the other is not perfect, but it is his imperfections that make all his charm! Because if you plan to last, how can you expect your couple to last even a decade, if after two weeks, your darling’s little quirks are already getting on your nerves?
3/ You argue, but you do it well
Yes yes there are healthy ways to fight! A couple who love each other with true love will know, after a few unsuccessful attempts, how to find an appropriate way to argue. A healthy and balanced relationship is built by two people who know how to argue and listen to each other at the same time! Holding back your anger or opinions is not good for you because it will only delay the explosion. But if you know how to do it while remaining open to communication. Then bravo, it’s not for every couple!
4/ You are confident
There is no competition between the two of you, at least no bad competition! Your love is not one-sided, one does not give or receive more than the other. You find comfort and clarity in your respective roles: you are in your place, and you really feel 100% yourself thanks to this relationship.
5/ Opposites attract each other
I don’t mean that you can’t love each other if you look alike, no! But see for yourself. What is the main cause of failed relationships? The difference. It can range from behavior, quirks, tastes, interests, etc… So if you learn to see these differences as a richness, and you see your partner as a missing piece of the puzzle of your life, despite your differences, and your differences, then no doubt you will be able to go a long way together!
6/ You only want your sweetheart
Of course, you may find this or that person attractive, you are human all the same, but there is not an atom of you that wants them. Why not? Because they are all too busy loving your partner! You don’t spend your time fantasizing about other guys/girls… You used to be a great seducer but for him/her, you know you’ve settled down for good? An excellent sign that you’ve found the right guy/girl