Nothing is impossible in love, certainly the task is not easy to remain the one and only in the heart of your darling but not impossible! For this we will see how your darling sees love to better adapt.
Love as seen by your darling
You have to find the right balance between the affection you give him every day and the challenge. Indeed, if you give him too much attention, he will take you for granted and that’s when he gets bored.
So that your darling constantly tries to seduce you, to please you and to make you fall in love there are three small rules:
- No emotional dependence
- Remaining a free woman
- Not expecting a perfect relationship
The right question is: how do you make him happy at your side?
It will be important for you to understand your darling’s desires. You don’t necessarily have the same expectations, the same interests, but it doesn’t matter, what’s important is to be both fulfilled. It’s not just your desires or hers that should be a priority, but rather to find a compromise so that everyone does what they really like.
For your darling to be happy, he’s going to need to share experiences, so I can advise you to innovate and take him to do activities he’ll never have done before. It’s also important to let him take the initiative regarding outings, he needs to manage the organization, by doing this he’s taking the first step and it will strengthen your presence in his mind.
Love is not an exact science, but there are small rules to keep in mind so that your darling is always in love.
Rule 1: Be thankful and show it to her
When your darling does something for you, it is important to show him or her that you care. You need to show him or her that you are happy to share your daily life with him or her.
Rule 2: Make the most of the moment
The more good times you share together, the more you will be invested in your relationship for both of you. To really enjoy the good times, you need to take some distance in order to keep a certain balance in your relationship.
Rule 3: Communicate
It is important to discuss if you have a problem rather than blaming each other. Try to understand why you are in this situation by asking questions. This will give you as much information as possible so that you can then find a solution to your problem.
Rule 4: Spice up your daily life
To make your darling even more in love, you will have to let your desires speak for themselves and not be afraid to innovate in your relationship, whether in bed or in life. You need to be open to taking initiatives on your side as well as his. You can try out new positions or try out a new kitchen
Rule 5: Don’t ask yourself too many questions
Don’t pollute your mind with many questions that will ruin your life. To do this, you must take life as it comes and not prevent your darling from going out with his friends for fear of losing him, on the contrary! By adopting this attitude you risk suffocating him… and making him run away.
Rule 6: Become her confidante
Your darling is also looking for a friend in his wife. You can become his confidant by supporting him in difficult moments that he will only share with you.