Many girls are prone to feeling insecure when it comes to thinking about what guys think when they see them. There are too many untrustworthy guys out there who are willing to take advantage of women’s insecurity. And for that reason, many girls end up developing trust issues with men. It also doesn’t help that men tend to be less expressive than women about their feelings and thoughts. Therefore, many girls in a relationship will find it very difficult to read their guy’s mind accurately.
But what most girls don’t realize is that men are very expressive about their feelings, they just don’t often use words to express themselves. Men communicate more physically than verbally and for that reason, it is very important to interpret their actions rather than waiting for words. If you learn to pay attention to how he treats you, you will find out how much he values you. Here are some non-verbal signs that your guy loves you and is definitely in love with you.
- He always makes you feel like his priority in life.
An important component of life is balancing priorities. Various aspects of life will demand your attention and energy and you should know how you are going to be able to divide your focus accordingly. So, if he really takes the time to be with you and work on your relationship, then that is his way of telling you that he cares about you and loves you.
- Willingly accept any inconvenience for your own convenience.
We all have naturally selfish tendencies. As human beings, we will always want to behave in ways that benefit us. We always want to act out of convenience. But we are also willing to go to the trouble for the things and people that are most important to us, and that’s just what he does for you.
- You are part of his social circles.
You know he really loves you if he incorporates you into his social circle, so you know he’s not treating you like a temporary thing in his life. He knows you are real and wants the other people in his life to get used to the fact that you will always be there. You are something permanent in his life.
- He likes to spend most of his time with you.
We really only spend time with the things that we like and that are most important to us. If he spends a lot of time with you, it’s definitely a good thing.
- He’s not shy about getting cuddly with you.
physical contact closeness are also a great expression of affection and love for another person.
You should always be able to find happiness in the fact that you have a man who wants you to feel his love through the form of physical touch.
- He treats you equally.
He does not consider himself superior to you. He doesn’t put you down, or belittle you in any way, but he doesn’t put you on a pedestal either. He doesn’t idealize you, nor does he put you on a pedestal. He sees you as you really are and loves you for it.
- He has a keen interest in the things you are passionate about.
He understands that you are a human being full of different passions, interests, experiences and stories. He wants to immerse himself in everything and be an important part of your life as well. He really wants to integrate himself into who you are as a person.
- He gives you your space whenever you ask for it.
Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean he automatically thinks he has the right to overstep your boundaries of physical contact. He still respects that you are an individual who he will never want to make uncomfortable by overstepping.
- He never flirts with other girls.
He is totally committed to you and will never do anything that could insinuate that his intentions towards you are not serious. He will always go out of his way to assure you that your place in his life is safe and secure. He will never want to make you feel as if you are a mere option for him. He will want to make you feel like you are his only one.
- He is consistent in his efforts for you.
He doesn’t play “Hot or Cold” with you. He’s there, really, every day. He’s not going to be inconsistent with his efforts at all. He’s someone you can always count on to be there for you all the time.