Actions speak louder than words. Never forget that.
What we say can be so nice and sweet, but if our body language doesn’t align with the words we say, it’s all a waste. Many people say they love, but too few show it.
Sure, part of loving someone is telling them how you feel. However, the other part about being in a relationship is showing that love. You can show admiration, affection, love to someone without saying a word.
Here’s how you can show them that you care about them deeply without saying a word!
These small actions you do every day don’t need to be accompanied by verbal statements. You probably already show your admiration in so many ways, but here are a few more ways you can add to your list:
Show him how much you care by putting the phone down when you’re with him
If your partner wants to talk about something, put the phone down. Don’t scroll through Instagram/Facebook/TikTok while he’s pouring his heart out in front of you. He shouldn’t have to compete with an electronic device for your attention.
Leave love letters to show him how much you care about him
Why not show him you’re in love with him? It doesn’t matter if you’ve only been in a relationship for a few months or decades. If you want to spend the rest of your life with the man you’re with now, then you need to find ways to show him every day that he’s your soulmate and that your love for him grows with time.
Choose to be there for him
If you want to show him how much you care about him, then be there for him in all the moments of his life. If he’s facing a problem and needs you, then postpone what you have on your list and choose to be there for him. He needs you to support him through life, through the big and small happenings – and this gesture of yours goes far beyond a simple “I love you” said in a hurry.
Ask him how his day was
Want to show him how much you care? Then show him that you care about what’s going on in his life. When he gets home from work, ask him how his day was, how he’s feeling.
Help him when he needs it
When you’re in a loving relationship, you need to help your partner. He needs to be there for you in difficult times, and you need to help him when he can’t. You are a team and together you will overcome all the obstacles that life throws your way.
Make time for him
Sure, you’re busy with your life, with problems, with stress… but you need to make time for each other. You can show how much you care about him by finding ways to spend time together.
When you’re in the beginning of a relationship, you drive hours to see your loved one. However, once you live together or are already married, routine (sometimes even laziness) sets in. However, this desire to be with your partner should not change. If it’s important to you, make time and go to the movies, go out to dinner, go for a walk.
Life can get pretty boring when everything is simple and routine sets in. However, when you add a dash of spontaneity every now and then, things change. A short weekend spent together, dinner at a fancy restaurant in the middle of the week shows that you still care about your partner.