There are soulmates
I felt like he was my soulmate in all my years with him. The connection between us was profound. Even if it didn’t work out, he truly opened my heart and taught me to love. And for that, I am eternally grateful.
Pay attention to red flags.
There were critical moments that I used to overlook; now, I also understand that you can’t help a person who doesn’t want to be helped. Stop trying because you’re trying in vain.
Don’t pull out of a relationship where there is no love left
Don’t stay in a relationship just because it’s been long; never beg for love. This was a hard lesson because when I love, I do it with all my heart.
I learned that in a relationship, it takes two people involved. One will never be enough. So, if you don’t see action from your partner, then maybe you should ask yourself a few questions. Maybe he’s not the one for you. Don’t pull away from him; release him and allow him to continue on his way in this world. Find peace and strength to move on with your life too.
Seek honesty
A relationship without honesty is not a deep relationship. If he is lying about anything, he has a problem that needs to be fixed. Can you trust a person who lies to you and lies to themselves?
Choose to be with someone who has the same vision of the future as you do
If you don’t have the same future vision, your relationship won’t work. There will come a time when one will no longer want to compromise, or your paths will be so far apart that you won’t find reasons to stay together.
Don’t expect to assume that you know his desires or that you have the same dreams. Communicate openly and find out what he wants from the future.
For me, this relationship was incredible and changed me forever. After overcoming the pain of losing a soul, I’ve learned not to settle for less. I deserve more, and I trust that I will get the love my heart needs.