You feel sorry for yourself because you’re lonely
…. But when someone asks to see you, it’s not an option. Then you have to take a shower, put on clothes other than your soft dress and actually talk to someone other than yourself. No then it’s probably better to stay with your hand in the chip bowl instead.
You play the game
While it can be a bit exciting to play the game and play a bit hard at first when you meet someone new, you need to know when it’s time to stop. If you don’t show genuine interest, your crush can’t know you’re interested, right?
You argue with your friends… (way too much)
Having someone to discuss and bounce ideas off is nice, but eventually there can be so many opinions that you can forget your own in the middle of it all. Make sure you don’t listen to everything your friends say, but that you actually form your own opinion.
You’ll still get hurt in the end
It’s all about attitude, if you go in with a bad attitude and think it’s going to go down the drain, even before it’s started… Well, then it probably will too.
You can’t let go of your former crush or partner
The most important thing if you really want to find someone new is to let go of what has already been. Don’t compare your new crush to old relationships, it never leads to anything good. Out with the old and in with the new!