Time to break up?
How do you know when it’s time to break up with your partner? Have you been thinking about it for a long time and no matter how hard you try to push it away, the thoughts keep popping up? Then it’s probably something you’ve been thinking about a lot – and maybe it’s time to tackle the problem.
Are you putting it off because you really love your partner? It’s common. But for a relationship to work, it needs to be mutual and both partners need to be committed. Do you recognise yourself in these five points? Then your alarm bells are ringing.
Your partner lets you down time and time again
Are you constantly walking around with a lump in your stomach, worrying that your partner will let you down, again? Then there’s something wrong with your relationship. A partner who lets you down time and time again is not a good partner, no matter how much you love him.
Your partner doesn’t show the same feelings
Do you love your partner to the moon and back and feel like you would do anything for him? Wonderful. But do you feel your partner doesn’t do the same? Then you actually deserve someone else, who loves you just as much as you love him.
You’re always disappointed
Do you walk around thinking “this time it will be fine” when you’re about to do something together? Or do you go around expecting little surprises, declarations of love or fun dates – but you always manage to be disappointed? Well, it could actually be that your partner isn’t as committed to your relationship as you are.
You think “wish I didn’t have feelings”
I guess we’ve all been there at some point. We’ve wished we could erase our feelings and move on from someone who we know deep down isn’t good for us. If you feel this way about your partner – then it’s time to break up and start the process of getting over him for real.
You don’t feel well
Loving someone is sometimes the best thing there is, but sometimes the hardest thing there is. If you don’t feel good about your relationship but don’t want to leave because you’re too in love, then you should actually try listening to your brain instead of your heart. You’ll find a new love that will make you feel just the way you deserve – magically good.