He doesn’t keep the conversation going
There’s a fine line between a person responding to what you write and continuing the conversation. If you’re the one who’s “on” and writing a lot, it can be hard to know if they’re interested or not. But if they only respond when you ask a question, they might find it a bit much. Your crush may not have the same enthusiasm as you and may feel compelled to respond.
They don’t have the same enthusiasm as you
One of the easiest ways to tell if someone has lost interest in you is based on how they text you. If they used to respond very quickly and with enthusiasm and suddenly take an hour to respond to a text message but have time to post on Instagram, they may have unfortunately lost interest.
But just because they don’t share the same enthusiasm as you doesn’t mean they’re not interested. However, it might be a good idea to cut down on all the texting and snapping if you notice that they’re getting a little annoyed with you.
They don’t respond
There’s not always something to reply to every text or snap. Sometimes you can’t reply to a “haha” or an emoji. But if they don’t reply at all, even if you write something that you think can be replied to, you should tag down a bit on the text message. If they haven’t replied to the last five things you wrote, there might be a hint.
However, it doesn’t have to be your problem
If you know that you might be texting your crush a bit too much, try to tone it down and distance yourself a bit. But it’s also important to remember when we have feelings for someone it’s easy for our crush to be the only one on our radar 24/7. But just because they don’t share the same enthusiasm as you doesn’t mean you should change your mind to make someone else happy or content.