Are you thinking about breaking up with your partner, but not sure if it’s the right choice? Here are five questions you can ask yourself. Answer honestly and then think about how you feel.
Are you often bored with your partner?
When you meet your partner and hang out, you mostly feel nja… Nothing fun is happening and you’re not enjoying the time.
Would you rather hang out with friends?
You have two options on a Friday night, you can hang out with friends or go on a date with your loved one. Which do you choose? If you always exclude your partner and don’t want to spend time and energy with them, it’s a sign that it’s time to break up.
Do you get annoyed easily when you’re with them?
Do you feel easily irritated and a bit grumpy when you are around your partner? Then it’s not a good sign. Certainly you can argue and be in a bad mood, but if that feeling comes back time and time again, it’s a warning sign.
Do you fight a lot?
Fighting and bickering happens, but how often is it actually reasonable for you to have a heated argument? Pick your battles, but also think about what you’re really fighting about. Is there something underlying?