Unfortunately, such painful crash landings happen again and again. At the same time, you could definitely make sure that no lousy guy breaks your heart. Because, of course, there are warning signs that the other person isn’t all there. We are all too happy to overlook them because of all the butterflies. So here are ten signs that he’s not really interested …
he makes no effort to introduce you to his friends or family.
If you fall in love with someone, you want to introduce that person to his friends and family. However, if he makes zero effort to introduce you to anyone (not in the first few weeks, but at some point in the first few months), then unfortunately you have to wonder if he is serious.
he says things like, “I don’t know what I want right now …”
This sentence translates to exactly one thing: “I pretty much know I don’t want you.” Because that’s exactly what he’s saying right now. He’s just too cowardly to say it clearly. Therefore: Quickly take your legs in your hands and away!
he doesn’t take time for you.
Sure, we all have stress and too many appointments all the time. No one is asking him to drop everything for you (well, once in a while would be great). But the man you’re dating constantly has excuses why you can’t see each other. If he really cared about you, he would definitely take the time to see you. Even if it’s just briefly during lunch or for half an hour in the evening. If he doesn’t even make an effort, that should show you that he couldn’t care less about you.