Here are 8 behaviors to adopt in order to be attractive and to make people look at you. You will then have what it takes to become a real social magnet, both in the physical and behavioral field.
Have confidence in yourself!
When a person is confident, he or she is bound to emit waves that arouse the curiosity of others. They then come to ask themselves a number of questions such as: How does she believe in herself so much? How does she accept herself without worrying about the eyes of others?
By adopting such an attitude you will attract a lot of people to you, sometimes not for the best reasons since many will envy this quality. Others will feel “safe” with you, since you do not doubt your abilities and you are not afraid of the truth. They then know that with this confidence they can create a real and sincere relationship with you.
Be confident, but don’t be haughty, always remain modest.
Be friendly!
You won’t attract anyone by being unpleasant and negative. Be a friendly and easy-going person. You should be the friend that people are sure to have a good time with, not the one they try to avoid when they see you on the other side of the street.
Offer to help your loved ones from time to time, check in with them and don’t hesitate to bring a little fun to your parties.
Become the one who is invited every time, whether it is for a big event or just a small friendly meal.
Don’t slander, don’t lie and see the glass as half full rather than half empty.
Be smiley!
Having to deal with someone who is bland and grumpy doesn’t make you want to spend time with them.
So you can imagine that when you don’t know a person who is sulking all day, it is impossible to be attracted to him/her for any reason, since he/she simply gives the impression that he/she is exhausted by all those around him/her. You think that she just wants to be alone.
On the other hand, when you smile, you create warmth around you. You put people at ease and they don’t hesitate to come to you.
Again, when you don’t know someone and you smile at them on the street, you make them want to get to know you later. So smile!
Be unique!
Don’t be like anyone else. Be surprising and completely different. Nobody goes for déjà vu. Don’t be boring, be you! You already have the chance to be unique, since nobody looks like you, nobody is you. So keep this treasure that is your authenticity and make it a pillar in your life.
It is obvious that in this way you will be more than attractive, since you will be totally unique.
Be unattainable!
The unattainable attracts. It is well known that everything that is impossible is a magnet for all of us. When we can’t have something in its entirety, it makes us want it even more.
So be that gem that everyone wants but doesn’t have access to.
Know how to put a barrier around your secrets, your privacy and your person. Don’t reveal everything or you will lose your mystery.
Make people want to be like you!
Women should be inspired by you and want to be like you. We are all attracted by a celebrity on whom we draw all the secret make-up, clothing and we know every detail of his existence. We dream to be like her, to follow her path, to have her life!
Because her life corresponds to us. Her life makes us dream. Her life attracts us.
So be like this celebrity and make yourself an example to follow. Let women see you, talk to you and come away with a feeling of admiration that makes them want to be like you.
Pay attention to your appearance!
The first thing you see in someone is their appearance. So it is very important to pay attention to your outfit and your style. You need to match your style but also have an elegant and refined outfit, while being personal. Don’t neglect yourself or any detail. This can be anything from a pair of earrings to nail polish. By respecting each of these details, you also respect yourself and the image you send out. Whether we like it or not, appearance is very important.
Pay attention to your hygiene!
If you want to be a minimum attractive: Your hygiene must be irreproachable. It is obvious ladies, that you must be clean in all circumstances, whether it is to attract someone or not.
Hygiene is a priority in the life of each of us, so do not leave out any detail or part of your body. The excuse of “I’m putting my hair in a bun so that people don’t see my greasy hair” is no longer acceptable! Don’t forget your ears or your nails, and respect the body that was given to you.
You will have understood it, to be attractive requires an effort in all the fields. But you have now the keys to become it easily.
It is now up to you to become the best version of yourself.