A clear sign that your relationship won’t last is that he doesn’t ask questions about you. He’s not curious about the things that matter to you: your passions, dreams, fears, hopes.
Have you ever wondered why you stay in the relationship you’re in now? Why the man you love doesn’t know you? Doesn’t he know what’s hidden in your soul? Here are the most important signs that tell you your relationship won’t last:
It doesn’t take the time to ask yourself important questions to find out who you are
A clear sign that your relationship won’t last is that he doesn’t ask you questions about yourself. He’s not curious about the things that matter to you: your passions, dreams, fears, hopes.
Doesn’t like to spend time with your family members or close friends
If he loves you, he wants to see you more often with the people you care about. It helps to include them in your life, to make time for them. And he’ll be there for you when you want to spend time with them.
Believes that the little things are not important
He only knows the obvious things about you, like your favourite colour or your favourite movie, when your birthday is, or the flowers you love. He doesn’t know that you like a particular film because of a specific sequence in which you’ve found yourself. He notices the big picture and doesn’t want to delve deeper.
It doesn’t seem to include you in the plans.
He doesn’t spend much time discussing your future. He never includes you in his plans. He knows what he wants to do, what his dreams are, and where he wants to be in a few years. Besides, you may not be on the same page about what you want from life.
A clear sign that your relationship won’t last is that he doesn’t ask questions about you. He’s not curious about the things that matter to you: your passions, dreams, fears, hopes.
Subtly ignores you when you talk about your problems
You don’t like to talk about your concerns. You often find it very hard to open up and say what’s weighing you down. But sometimes, you need to say more, let go of all your thoughts, and calm down. But he doesn’t seem to want to be there, to listen to you talk about the things that are bothering you.
He has never asked you about your past.
You’ve changed a lot throughout your life, but who you once were has a lot to do with who you are now. He doesn’t need to know every little secret about you and your past, but if he’s not curious about your life before you meet him, not only does he not know who you are, he may not even want to know more.
I never started a deep conversation.
He didn’t want to get into intense conversations. Yes, it’s nice to talk about the movie you saw recently or your favourite food. Still, such conversations reveal nothing about who you are and your relationship.
You don’t have to talk every day about the meaning of life.
Still, it would be nice to have conversations about the things that inspire you occasionally, the stuff you believe in, the things you may regret – these are meaningful conversations that a real couple should have.