He talks trash about his ex-girlfriends
One of the first signs that your boyfriend is not a good guy is that he talks trash about his ex-girlfriends from the very beginning. These are the girls he was with and if he starts talking shit about them in front of you – someone he just met – you should take this as a big warning sign.
It shows more than clearly that this guy has absolutely no respect for women and that he doesn’t know what the word loyalty means. After all, what exactly would you expect from such a guy if the two of you were to break up?
Or he’s too intimate with one of them
Being friends with one (or all) of your girlfriends is one thing, but her still being involved in your new boyfriend’s life is something completely different. It could be a sign that these two are having unfinished business together. If so.
You should run away as soon as possible and let them deal with their own drama. The last thing you want is for someone’s emotional baggage to ruin your new relationship, before it has even had a chance to begin.
He’s too good to be true
Every one of us really wants the perfect man to make all your dreams come true and turn your life into a fairytale. But, an overly perfect guy is actually sometimes a big walking warning sign.
Let’s face it, we all have our faults and flaws and if your guy is really trying to hide his, it’s obvious that his faults and flaws are pretty serious. Be careful, he may turn out to be a narcissist in disguise, showering you with declarations of love until he gets you where he wants you, a guy whose goal is to manipulate you and break your heart.
He doesn’t respect your boundaries
When it comes to a new relationship, boundaries mean everything. You need to know that you can trust your new boyfriend, that you can feel safe with him and that he will never make you do anything you don’t feel comfortable with.
But if he’s pushing you too hard and not respecting your boundaries, it’s time to rethink your decision to date him.
He talks trash about your loved ones
One of the biggest warning flags you need to pay attention to, in a new relationship, is the way your boyfriend treats people who have been a part of your life before he came into the picture. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying he should kiss their asses or that he should turn himself inside out to get them to like him.
However, he’s also not allowed to talk shit about your friends or family. Besides being disrespectful to you and your loved ones, it can also be the first sign of possessive jealousy.
He digs into your past
Another type of man you should be wary of is the incredibly nosy one. It’s one thing if your boyfriend asks some common and basic questions about your past romantic relationships – like, when you had your last serious relationship – but it’s something else entirely if he wants to know every little detail about it.
This guy doesn’t seem to be aware that your past isn’t something he should be concerned about, nor does he have any right to ask you about any details unless you reveal them voluntarily.
He expects you to give him all your attention
When you first meet a man who prioritizes you from day one and expects you to do the same for him, you consider it something new and exciting. You are happy that you found someone who is honest about his goals, someone who is crazy about you and who wants you for himself.
But as the initial infatuation fades and you look back on things, you come to realize that this was something you should have considered a warning flag.
And it is – a warning that says you should run for your life!