His body speaks before his word
Observe the body of the man you are dating on your first and subsequent appointments. therapist and practitioner in coaching and psychotherapy: “In love, it is often the body that speaks first, even though we often do our best to ignore the signs it sends. The stress associated with the attraction experienced at the beginning of a relationship leads to an adrenaline rush, which causes an accelerated heartbeat, dilated pupils, and sometimes even excessive sweating”. If the man you’re dating shows signs of stress, has red cheeks or is stammering, he’s probably not indifferent to you…
It combines desire and love
A man who is in love with you knows how to associate desire and love. In fact, he is just as capable of feeling desire for you as he is of feeling love. He likes intimate connections with you, but also many other things about you.
He talks about you
If he is in love with you, he will talk about you to his brothers and sisters, but especially to his friends. He won’t be afraid to mention you or to go out in public with you. If he prefers to put you aside in his discussions and no one knows who you are, it is likely that you are not in the middle of a serious relationship and that you are not passing through his life. However, don’t expect to be at the center of his words in the first week, give him time!
He’s making plans with you
To project oneself is simply to envisage the future with the other. At first, it’s just for the near future, then the short term is extended to a long term common future, so if your partner often offers you projects, like trips or trips, or you see them looking ahead with you, it’s a very good sign for your future together!
He takes care of you
You can see that a man loves you and cares about you when he takes care of you and you do the same. This is a sign of love and attachment in your relationship.
He loves the person you are
Love is loving the other person as he or she is, with his or her qualities, but also with his or her faults. In the film When Harry met Sally, Harry made a sublime declaration of love to Sally: “I love that you have a runny nose when it’s 22°C, I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich, I love the little wrinkle you get when you look at me like I’m a crazy person. […]” So, if your partner doesn’t like you as much as you do with your beauty products or if he absolutely wants you to change your style of clothing, he probably doesn’t like you the way you are…
It is interested in you and your life
The man you are dating or your lover should be interested in your life. If he constantly talks about himself and never asks you any questions or listens to you, probably the only person he is interested in is himself. A couple relationship, like a friendship relationship, is based on sharing. You should be able to count on him and he should be able to do the same.
He wants you to be happy
Are you planning to go to a restaurant with your girlfriends or go see a play on Friday and your lover is furious? Maybe you should consider changing partners. A man who loves you wants you to be happy, even if it means not seeing you one night during the week. He will always encourage you to pursue your dreams and career goals because he knows that’s what makes you happy.
He wants to please you and makes efforts to do so.
Your partner may accompany you to that salsa class you’ve been talking about so much, even if he doesn’t like to dance, for the simple reason that he loves you. Or you may go to see him play field hockey in the cold winter weather. Love is also about compromise and effort. If the man you’re dating wants to please you and makes an effort for you, it’s a sign that he loves you.
He takes your choices into consideration
If you decide to listen to movies or music, he will take your choices into consideration. He won’t decide for both. After all, he’s interested in you and what you like. Same thing if you go to a restaurant.
